Ritz Azul: Embracing a Slower, More Intentional Path to Motherhood
Actress and mom-to-be Ritz Azul opens up about slowing down, choosing peace, and preparing for her most meaningful role yet –motherhood
Since marrying Allan Guy in 2021, Ritz Azul has been embracing a life far removed from the relentless pace of showbiz. These days, the actress—best known for her roles in Los Bastardos and The Promise of Forever—is leaning into a slower, more intentional rhythm as she prepares to welcome her first child.
The transition didn’t come without growing pains. After years of living with her family in Pampanga, Ritz relocated to Manila to start her married life—an adjustment that took time and patience.
“Moving away from my parents and the province was a big change,” she shares. “I’ve always loved being close to my family. When I wasn’t working, I was with them. It took a few years to really adapt to this new season of life.”
Slowing Down
After years of packed schedules and nonstop projects, Ritz is now savoring the freedom to explore interests she once had to put on hold.
“I finally get to do things I’ve always wanted to do—learning pottery, playing golf, traveling, helping my husband with his business,” she says. “Most of all, I get to spend quality time with him and our families. Life feels peaceful. And now, we’re stepping into a new chapter.”
That chapter, of course, is motherhood. Ritz and Allan announced their pregnancy in January, sharing that they are expecting their baby boy sometime in May.
Missing the Craft, Rediscovering Hobbies
Having been in the industry since her teens, Ritz admits that stepping away from acting hasn’t been easy.
“I miss the people—the camaraderie on set, the creative energy,” she says. “Acting has always been an emotional outlet for me. There were projects I really wanted to do, but the timing just wasn’t right. I had to honor where I am now.”
When they first found out about the pregnancy, excitement came hand in hand with caution.
“We were happy, but also scared,” Ritz shares honestly. “Because of past heartbreaks, we tried not to expect too much. We wanted to celebrate, but we also wanted to protect our hearts.”
With her pregnancy considered high-risk, Ritz and Allan made the mutual decision to slow things down even more. Plans for business ventures, golf, and travel were put on hold.
“My husband reminded me that my priority is to rest, avoid stress, and live as healthily as possible,” she says. “Even eating better was a challenge during the first trimester.”
One unexpected joy? Rediscovering crocheting.
“I fell in love with it again—my first love,” she laughs.
Firsts That Change You
Like many first-time moms, Ritz recalls being deeply moved when she heard her baby’s heartbeat for the first time.
“Just thinking about it makes me emotional,” she says. “The sound, my tears, my husband’s reaction—it’s all so vivid. We felt relief, gratitude, and so much love. But we also reminded ourselves to stay calm.”
That moment strengthened their resolve to trust, pray, and let go of what they couldn’t control.
“I want to protect our baby, but I know I can’t control everything. All we can really do is wait and have faith.”
Ritz admits she once thought pregnancy would be easy, having seen many women in her family go through it.
“Now I understand that every pregnancy is different,” she reflects. “We’re learning how to balance everything—physically, emotionally, mentally. We want to be joyful, but we’ve also learned to guard our emotions.”
A True Partner Through It All
Through every adjustment, Ritz says Allan has been her number one supporter.
“Even with his busy schedule, he always finds ways to be present,” she shares. “He checks on me constantly, comes home during lunch just to eat with me, and makes sure I’m comfortable. He knows I’m extra clingy right now—and he shows up for that,” she says with a laugh.
Seeing him step into fatherhood has been a revelation.
“I didn’t think he wanted to be a dad at first,” Ritz admits. “But now, I think he’s even more ready to be a dad than I am to be a mom.”
Redefining Priorities
Like many expectant mothers, Ritz finds herself asking questions daily.
“Is this safe for the baby? Is this normal?” she says. “But my biggest question is, ‘Can we raise a child well?’”
She turns to prayer when worries creep in, reminding herself that not everything is within her control.
“I saw how my mom took care of my sister, and I thought, ‘I don’t think I can do that. It’s hard,” she said.
“Now that I’m pregnant, I may not fully understand yet, but I think I have an idea. I feel more protective. I am starting to think about the baby first before myself.”
Her days are simple and full: watching TV series and movies with Allan, accompanying him to golf, crocheting, and catching up with friends over lunch or dinner.
The Values Ritz Hopes to Pass On
As she looks ahead, Ritz isn’t focused on having everything figured out. What matters most to her is creating a loving home.
“I grew up in a family full of love, and I hope our son experiences the same,” she says. “We’re not perfect, but I hope he sees the effort we make for our family.”
The one value she hopes to instill above all else? Love.
“In this generation, there’s so much hatred—online and everywhere else,” Ritz reflects. “I want my child to grow up with love in his heart. Love teaches patience, kindness, and hope. If you lead with love, it becomes easier to see the good in life—and good things will follow.”
As she waits for her baby’s arrival, Ritz Azul is discovering that sometimes, stepping away from the spotlight is what allows life’s most meaningful moments to shine.
Frequently Asked Questions
Ritz Azul shared that she is expecting her baby boy in May.
Yes. Ritz shared that she misses the creative process, the people on set, and the emotional outlet that acting gives her, though she trusts the timing of this pause.
Ritz admits the journey has been both joyful and emotionally challenging, especially after past heartbreaks. She says the experience has made her more protective, reflective, and faith-driven.
Ritz shared that Allan makes a conscious effort to be present—checking on her often, spending meals together, and prioritizing their growing family.
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