Where Support For Autism Really Matters: A DLSU Student’s Story
During DLSU’s graduation rites, Psychology graduate Juan Alfonzo “Japonz” Dacumos is proof of what happens when the right kind of support is given
We all want our kids to thrive and for many parents who have autistic kids, they fear that colleges don’t have the necessary tools to support them. While some colleges don’t, the others that do see a great pay-off. DLSU graduate, Juan Alfonzo “Japonz” Dacumos, proudly and candidly shared his Autism diagnosis in his speech during the recognition rites while citing how the university fostered an environment that didn’t shame him for having autism.
“You saw a difference — a difference that never made me inferior or less capable. And with this, you encouraged me to thrive in a way that allowed me to embrace my autism,” he stated.
He graduated as a summa cum laude with a degree in Psychology.
When The Right Support Is Given
Autism, because of its varied presentations, requires different levels of support. Some need help processing unspoken social conventions. Others need more support in their speech. However, this premise also has a stigma in the Philippines. Many still characterize and expect autistic people, as Japonz pointed out, to have social struggles, self-care hardships, and limited potential. According to Japonz, his autism often manifested as a “tendency to walk away from conversations with no prompting or cues.”
“For so long, people suggested autistic individuals were incapable of succeeding and achieving typical life goals such as strong careers, living independently, or even graduating with flying colors,” he said.
However, he is living proof that if the right support is given, they can thrive. The support can differ depending on what their dreams are. While it will always demand patience, that sweet spot when the type of support and environment meet perfectly helps any person thrive. Japonz thanks DLSU and his fellow students for giving him hope to break that box.
“In a greater world that boxed him to his deficits, you made an autistic boy look into his future with hope. Thank you for making me believe there is a world ready to accept and include neurodiverse people like me,” Japonz intimates.
It may be difficult to find the right one, but it’s worth it!
With an overwhelming number of approaches, it can be discouraging for some parents to find the right one for their kids. There’ll be a lot of trial and error; yet, if it makes our kids become the best version of themselves, what’s there to lose?
While there are many parts in this fast-paced world where many feel that it’s not part of their job description to support, it’s hopeful to see that some are willing to try. And for those who are still struggling to find the kind of support an autistic person needs, it’s okay to mess up the first time. The important part is we don’t give up and believe in the long game. Just like how DLSU did it for Japonz.
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